do not i repeat do not text the boy. if u must talk to him about it do it in a more grown up way. dont take care of relationship issues in text messages. they are extremely impersonal and immature. althought the thought may be easy its just not the best way to go aobut things. on another note i totally 100 percent understand what u are going through. b/c i am in a similar situation right now. find peace in that the man is being honest with u, so u can either wait for him to come to u or u can search him out and ask him for an answer. either way start away from the text messages.