Hey Sports1 look at it this way - she seems like a "nice" and "level-headed" girl. She's been polite, she hasn't completely blown you off, she still replies to your email. That's all good. The bottom line is at least you know that you're attracted to women who have these qualities. That means the chances are you'll meet another girl like that too. TRUST ME on the long distance relationship thing - it's not worth it... and as other members have pointed out, especially when she's off to college. It's smart to say no... for both of you to say no. At least for now.

Supposedly there are 3 women for every guy on this plant right now - so the odds are in your favour, get out there and go for it... !!!