This idea was sparked by my current situation (which is described in more detail in the thread "how to be friends while waiting") and I thought I should put it up to a poll.

My current problem is that the girl whom I am quite smitten with (sorry, i just like that word) is afraid to commit to a serious relationship. Now, the stereotype is that men are always afraid of commitment, yet I, a guy who is looking for a relationship only if it's serious, can't seem to find a girlfriend. So who is it really that's afraid of commitment?