Kelly, this is gonna sound harsh. But what do you seriously expect if you are not committed to each other. If you were just seeing him then he and you both have the right to see other people - that means sleeping with other people. Us girls would never dream of hopping from one bed to another but men do and we have to face the facts. I would forget his texts etc. And if u call him a friend I would hate to know what your enemy is. Tell him to pi55 off. You are way worth much more then this. Are you not happy with the bloke your seeing?