I think you need to work out the situtation in stages... like if you are goofying around then pull her and put your arm around her just like buddies and if she allows it then you can maybe keep doing that for a bit and pay very close attention as how she reacts if she is still warm and ok with it then go for that kiss but make sure you do some flirting while you are holding her and tah dah!! Actually that's what i'm planning on doing with the girl I like so good luck to both of us