Just for reference I saw this girl at a party the other night and tried talking to her. There was alcohol at this party and she's a freakin' lightweight so a couple of sips and she was drunk. When I finally decided to talk to her, she didn't want to talk alone and so I tried to tell her that I figured out that it was a little much for the first date. Once I said that she said that it wasn't something I did wrong and she got up and left and wouldn't talk to me. She went inside and sat on the couch next to the guy she previously went out with and was more or less all over him. That was an unpleasant sight. I, by that time, was toast (drunk) and was going to just head on home (driving). Instead I sat out in my car for about ten minutes before my friend came out and talked to me. Then the girl came out and talked to me and didn't want me driving home. When I finally did leave, I was feeling a little better. When I got home I called her and said I got home ok (as if she cared) and asked if she had a ride home (as if I cared) and then just thanked her for being so straight forward about me no longer having a chance. The next day I was a brand new person, I didn't think about her at all any more in the possible girlfriend sense. After I got off of work I headed over to a party that her and my friends were at for their summer job. My friend said that they thought I was following her (I think that's a little selfish to think when we do share the same friends). Anyway I didn't talk to her at all and had a great time. I'm completely over her now and I laugh at how into her I was just days ago. The funny thing is that I applied for a job at this place so that I could work with friends of mine and got it. However, my friends did not get it, but she did so it'll be interesting to see how this will turn out considering the fact that she has no idea that I got the job. I basically plan on saying something along the lines of "Hey I'm not following you it's just that we happen to have some of the same friends. And it would probably be best just to go back to the way things were before the summer started. I don't think that's too much to ask considering I hardly said a word to you then." PS I'm starting to feel bad for this guy she was all over at the party because she's playing him like a freakin' yo-yo.