well, i've been dating my girl (ally) for about 2 months now. before that we were 'just friends' for about 6 months. we have a few mutual friends (jason and amy) and we all would hang out, or just 3 of us. well actually, amy is allys best friend and jason is one of my best friends; but we're all 'friends'.

anyways, everything was gravy. then when me and ally got together things got weird. they started saying they would feel like the third wheel. but that is what i don't understand. whenever all of us hang out, *I* feel like the outcast, because ally is so worried about what they think, that I basically get ignored for the most part. i talked to her about this a few weeks ago, and she even admitted that she knew it was going on. but it still continues to happen.

jason has his own girlfriend, and amy can hang out with them just fine. oh and amy was fine around ally and her ex-bf (who just so happens to be one of my best friends, but thats an entirely different and longer story).

i don't know what to do. we love each other but this is driving me insane. she doesn't act the way she really feels about me, and i can't either. it's like, if you saw us all together, you would never suspect that we were dating, let alone in love. it's not that i want to be making out with her the whole time, it's just that shouldn't she be more concerned with my feelings then theres? i think her priorities are a little out of whack...

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