true enough. actually what goes on this forum doesn't upset me at all!!!

I actually originally came on here, hoping to find advice on "how to get over something" rather then being just told "to get over it".

see the difference? so when I told Raverboy, that he stated the obvious, someone who regrets something, knows they can't go back on the decision made. what i think is important is to help the person live in the future rather then in the past regret.

but i must say that being blunt is good...very good. there's also a difference between being blunt and a bastard (or bitch). (wow !!! tee hee look at that alliteration)

anyway, thats off topic enough for this thread....anyone else have regrets?