thanks in advance for any advice.

I am really under stressed right now with my long distance relationship. We started dating from 97-99, broke up, then start again from 2002-now. We live in 2 different countries all this time and just visit each other on our vacations (approx. 3 times a year).

The reason for the break up the first time was because of the long-distance thing. Now, the problem seems to be happening again... He has agreed to move with me but he doesn't seem to do anything about it. He's afraid not being able to get a job due to economy, etc. (he is not American and I am). But he's still planning on moving with me but he doesn't know when - and this is the fact that has been driving crazy. As you can see, we had the problem once, and I don't want to waste more time if I don't have certainty.

He knows this problem because I have been complaining about it several times. He is the type who worries too much about EVERYTHING, too considerate about EVERYTHING, think too much, etc. I am sure you get it.

What should I do? should I end it again? I don't know ultimatum would help.

thanks for all your inputs