wow...long distance is tough. I am personally opposed to any sort of long distance relationship that has no definate end in sight.

May I ask why is it that you are in the relationship? You rarely see each other, he's hesistant to make it a short distance relationship. You have no desire to move to him. How can you grow with this person and truely love them if you havnt spent actual time with them. You have very little knowledge of each others personal habits

thats me though....