I used to live in Europe (where he is) and that's how we met. We dated for about 4 months while I was there and continued long distance when I returned to the US (job situation).

I have tried to live there but not much luck because it's hard for foreigners to get a professional jobs in Europe.
Recently, in May when he was here, he made the decision to move here. He's coming again this month, but still, he can't tell me when he can do it. He's been coming back and forth in short period of time - why doesn't he just move??

Am being too pushy?
What can I say so that he's convinced that it's not as big deal as he thinks and it's easier to get a job once he's here ..you know, for interviews, etc.

thanks again for inputs