First of all I'm sorry to hear about your situation.

I'm also in my early 20's and I know we havn't really left the dating scene however I still find it hard to meet people, and I'm always meeeting the wrong people. I guess the usual places such as bars, get togethers, college, and other social gatherings.

Are you in College?

I would just sugest to hang in there because the last thing you want to do is force yourself into a relationship just because your ex was ready to date.