Welcome aboard, i think you'll find what I found, and that's this forum is great!!!

Please keep in mind that I speak on no-authority. It just sounds like to me like he's trying to have his cake and eat it too.

Personally I know the temptation of staying someone like this. But you're confused, and rightfully so. He tells you he loves you, but he doesn't want to be with you?

So what's the deal? I think you might find him to be far to emotionally draining and relationships shouldn't be draining at all.

I would also suggest telling him that he is confusing you. Watch out that you don't become a victim! Good luck!