thank you very much for your advice; the fact is.. the other night ago.. i was very sick .. [ this has changed my whole feelings on him.. ] .. and he told me to die. he wasn't even kidding;although he told my friend he was. but didn't tell me. i didn't find this very NICE at all. it was mean.. and terrible like how could a person say something like that?.. it just hurt.. so much to hear.. and afterwards.. he said he would end up hating me if i kept taking him so seriously. it scares me.. cause i wish to get to know him. and now i haven't talked to him in 3 days. and i only told him i liked him 2 times. im so lost at words on what to do.. cause i do like him.. but .. i do joke around with him constantly. and he has brought up sexual stuff with me. he is leaving me so damn confused ;[