It's b/c you are a "huge prude" - people always want what they can't have. Either start sleeping around or get over your insecurities of being on some silly list. (BTW people who make lists of "who to do" are not the type to consider personality pluses or flaws when considering who they want to jump- tacky lil critters really IMHO)

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