It's NOT because you're a "huge prude". It's because apparently you ARE attractive and cause guys that age (grad school) are typically horny ****ing morons and the type that give ME a bad name.

For starters, start standing up to yourself. When you get an email asking you out or something, respond with, "No." When that guy ripped your sweater open you should have kicked him in the nuts and cursed him out. He MORE than deserved it. When someone calls you up, save their number under a name like, "Don't answer" or "no" or "no1, no2, no3, no4, etc." so you know not to pick up next time. Also, before you hang up, say, "Listen up. Don't call me again. Ever."

It really sucks, but you're gonna have to learn to be more of a 'bitch'. And definitely DO be careful going places alone if the guys at your school are like that.

Rod Steele