First of all you need to get out and participate in other activities as stated above. Get yourself involved in something. Hanging out in bars is fine, you meet new people, you create a bigger atmosphere for your network of friends, hence meeting other people outside of those bars. Getting invited to other social things. You have to increase your scope of friends. Even if it is casual.

The dating service? What like the online thing? Well, it works for a lot of people, and it doesnt have to be this desperate thing people really make it out to be, its a way of meeting new people, simple. You dont have to date them all, some may become good friends(hence creating the larger network). I have never personally used this way of meeting of people, but I know several who have, and they like the process of it, kinda narrows down the whole going out every weekend trying to find that person, rejections, bar whores, etc. So, dont always view it as desperation. You may be in a town that is limited to women your age. A lot of us 20 or 30 somethings live in remote areas which not much to really date. Look up joining something you really like to do, or get involved more in other social things. Start calling your friends and making plans to do things, having a dinner party or bbq, tell them to bring their friends, YOU create your atmosphere!

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