hey,
put downs,name calling, belitilling, controlling, vocaly and physically abusive, manipulative these are all abusive behaviors.

first and formost this realtionship is dangerous get out you said that you will be breaking up with him girl do NOT i repeat do NOT do this alone tell someone you are going to need the support and i dont want him to hurt you. what makes you think if he has pushed you that he wont freak out on you and hurt you. you dont wnat this...its time to go dont let him manipulate you anymore he does it because he knows he can..do whatever it takes to stand yp for yourself i know that its hard do not make anymore excuses for his behavior no one deserved to be trated the way he treats you.
sephora you are so not overreating! you need to react and take action here.

I'm lucky he's not some jerk because he would have "already bashed my head
in by now") Remember that when he does this stuff and says this stuff he's always really mad about something and it's not like he just does it for no reason. is this what youare waiting for? no honey abuse is abuse verbal mental physical emotional do not wait around for this guy to hit you! does anyone you know no abou this? are you sacred about telling him you would like to break up? Ask for help dont do this alone!