What blue said. This relationship is extremely abusive. There is such a thing as verbal and emotional abuse - physical isn't the only kind. You said he has anger mangement problems? Funny, so do I. And I know for a fact that the angrier we get, the less control we have. It's possible you just haven't pissed him off enough to hit you yet, but once you do, it's going to be easier for him to keep hitting you. Pushing is a sign of physical aggression, which tells me hitting isn't out of the question at all.

My advice: GET OUT NOW. No relationship is worth your dignity and/or safety. Your significant other should be supporting you and making you feel good about yourself, not telling you you're a useless ex-whore, and nothing without him. Dump the bastard. You deserve better.

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