alright well we were supposed to get together today and talk but he was being stupid about driving to see me (a whole 10-15min drive. just horrible.) and i couldn't wait any longer so we just talked on the phone. i think it worked out bettter that way. i was able to tell him stuff that has been bothering me about him forever without being worried about what he would do. so i think it went pretty well. we left it on taking a break for a long time... and i think we both know it's over, but it's just much nicer to say it that way. at least i know it's over. i really hope so and i think that it is, but this is not the first time we have broken up. i hope it's final. i don't want to get too optimistic! but anyways, thats my story...