I'm sorry to read that last post.

But I don't think thats the type of relationship you imagined to have when you two first got together no? Granted people change over time, but I'm pretty sure if I went up to some chick and on our first date I did that, I'm not quite too sure if she'll go out with me on the second date, ya think? =)

There's oogles of folks out there to meet, and invest your time into, that'll match what you want I'm sure