Originally Posted by Freddie
Do you know the answer to that for yourself? If someone presented the same presented this situation you've described to us to you..what advice would you give him? Of this advice, have you done these thing?
I have a few problems. One of them is my living at home. I'm doing it because it's the most financially responsible thing I can do, but let's face it - girls are attracted to independent guys. Another problem is that I don't drink or party, which is where most people seem to meet girls. Another problem is that I was home schooled, and thus I have been isolated since 2nd grade (when I left public school.) Ergo, I have no high school sweet heart. Those seem to be my biggest problems. I dress fine, I look good, I'm friendly, I'm funny... I don't see any personality issues.
The key, it seems, is just to ask out as many girls as possible. Eventually, one of them is going to say yes. But the problem is that I don't want to date random girls - that's a recipe for an incompatible relationship. I usually watch a girl for a while to gauge her personality and likes/dislikes. THEN I make the decision whether or not I want to ask her out. Unfortunately, that's time consuming and vaguely stalker-ish, so I don't really have the enrgy to do it very often.
I want to be one of those guys women throw themselves at. "OH MY GOD CAN I HAVE YOUR BABIES PLEASE!?" What's with those guys anyway?
1) As in I dress well, not that I make a good piece of furniture.