Amye,

IMHO the guy is simply not worth your suffering. He is not good enough to even go out with.

First of all, what kind of a creep says shit like "You are so lucky I chose you and not her"? I can't imagine anyone *I* would date saying such shit to *ME*, and if he did, I would not even LOOK in his direction anymore, let alone suffer over him and try to speak to him over the phone.

Second of all, he is a guilt-trip master, if I've ever seen one! You are being manipulated left right and center, and you are none the wiser. I am pretty sure he led that girl on -- NOBODY would call for several years if at least SOME reason wasn't given! If she flirts with him, he must flirt BACK! I don't believe for one second that it's all kosher from his side.

Believe me, just about ANY man would treat you better than THAT.

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