Sounds like she is really just not INTO you so much (even a VERY shy girl would show you she likes you, if she actually DID), and continues with the relationship only out of sense of guilt and misguided desire not to hurt your feelings. I would suggest that you back off for a while. If she really likes you, she'll make a step to initiate something with you. If not -- like I was afraid, she really never liked you.

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