I know this seems alot to read but this is what happens when you let problems backup. So i beg you please read on! Ive been dating this wonderful girl for almost a year and half and the flame has died down a bit and i want to rekindle the relationship. I want to spice things up and I want to do something really romantic for her but im stupmed on what to do. Everyone i ask for advice says "listen to her and find out what she likes to do" and stuff like that. even tho that is great advice im still drawing a blank. We have become predictable and boring and she not into having sex as much as she used to. Some might say that shes lost interest but i dont think that is the case. We both have been having money problems because she quit her job and i got layed off from my job a couple of months ago. So due to the lack of money we really havent been going out that much. Now that I have a new job we can not think of anything to do and it is very boring. But when we both had money back when we both still had jobs we were very indecisive on what we were going to do. I need help so i can save this relationship and have it not be boring. I want to do something really romantic for her and i want to make her feel special does anyone have any ideas that could possibly help me out?