Originally Posted by flame
Thanks for the feedback folks.
As I said, the bar scene really ain't my scene, especially going solo.
I am into plants, animals and nature so I joined the local feild naturalist's society. The meetings are enjoyable and informative but at least 80% of the ppl ther are over 40...
Y'know It just occurred to me that while most of the people there are outta my age-group, they all probably have daughters, grand-daughters, neices, etc....
Hmmmmmm.....
Firstly, not everyone on here is old. I am almost 25 which makes me closer to your age group. Everyone on here has given me invaluable opinions and advice. Something which cheers me up daily.
To meet new people you need the do any of the following:
Bar/Clubs - now you say it isn't your scene - fair enough - harshly true though that loads of people from all different backgrounds go out to clubs/pubs. The best way I found of meeting new people was to possibly get a part time job in a bar - it's fun (but hardwork) and I met my first love and some of my best friends doing it. It isn't my skilled professional however, just something I needed to do to meet new people - try it, you never know.
Interests - Broaden them - or go out with someone old, as a 25 year old, I am and I'm sure others, will be bored by your hobbies, I'm sorry if that is harsh but come on - if 40 year olds are the only ones then wake up and smell the coffee.
Internet Dating - This is definitely not for desparate people, it is very similar to meeting in a bar or club except you get the 'read part of the book' before you take it out, it didn't work out for me - cos I get bored easily.
Don't do the solo scene - that is sad and desparate. Just try to get out there and do something that fits more with the kind of people you want to meet.
I hope I haven't offended you in anyway, just trying to be honest with my opinion.
Let me know how you get on.
Jakki