me too! i have been with some huge guys that just have no clue what they were doing with it and the sex was lame. i have had my share of experiences and have come to the conclusion that its more about whether the man knows what he is doing with it over the size. BUT i do think there is such a thing as too small though. and if the guy is like ridiculously small then forget it. i mean you have to be able to feel something right?!? jk