Zekk, no... stop at yr tracks, you are saying she will visit you, right?
Ok, how about you wait for her to visit you den ask her out for coffee?
It's not wise to make a move now, like you said, you might scare her.
You can try this, tell her if she does come visit you, you'll treat her to coffee.
take it easy, Zekk.

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