Thanks everyone for the advices that you guys gave me. He actually goes to work 8 hours a day, and he is a pharmacy technician. Since he's gotten this job, we havnt been spending any time together. When he comes home from work, he just wants to jump on the computer and "surf" the web. When I want to talk to him, it doesnt seem like he want to talk at all. He has to wait until I get extremely upset to start talking to me. I told him that we need to communicate, and we need to spend more time together. He just says that he's trying to change and make things work, but right now he's really tired and he doesnt feel liek talking. He just wants to watch tv, surf the web and relax. I mean it's okay, but it's been like this for a past few weeks. I just want to actually go out with him sometimes and have time to sit down and talk to him. He waits for problems to pile up, and until I get upset then he'll talk to me.

I tried talking to him again today, and I got the same answer "I'm tired from work, I dont feel like talking." I guess he just like to talk, but doesnt really want to do anythign about it. I even had a hard time asking him to read this post last night, he was like "I just want to surf the web right now." Finally when I got him to read the topic, he just said "those people dont know what they are talkinkg about" and I asked him, well does everything that I wrote in the topioc sound true to u? and he said yeah some what. Well if it's all true, then I think I got some decent feedback from people. He acts like he's so old. I mean come on! there are people who are twice his age, that are still working 8-10 hours a week, and has two different jobs at the same time with children and a wife to take care of, and they can do it.

Okay well he really cares for his younger sister who is 27y/o. He came home oday, and he is showing off how nice hs new cell phone cover was (he has the same cell phone as me). I asked him if he has gotten one fo rme. He said "oh no, they only gaved me two. I gaved my sister one, and I got one for myself." I was just sort of sad, because if I was him, I would get that for him because I know it would show that I care and I put him before my own happiness. Just the small things like that really makes me happy, becaues it shows that he thought about me and cares about me at least. He doesnt get it, he said "why are you so jealous of my sister?" I just told him that "i dont care if ur sister has a cover or not, I just wished u called me and asked if i wanted one. I would of said no, because I want you to have it, but it would show me that you thought about me at least." He doesnt get it.

Well I decided after talking with him in the car a few minutes ago, that I was going to end it. I told him that I think we should spend some time appart. He suddenly made some stupid comment like "youre talking to Jim again huh?" Jim is my friend, even though Jim is interested in me, but I'm still with him bf. My bf thinks that I just posted all of those things up about him last night, just so I can have an excuse to break it off with him. I told him, if I wanted to break it off with u, why would I post up this topic to ask for advice? I wanted to work things out between us. he doesnt understand, so I really want to end it. I care for him, but this isnt going to work out. He's just full of talk, but i realize he's never going to walk the walk. I'm tired of it, I can't take it anymore. I'm fed up with the way he's acting.