Your fears are warranted and they are not as well. While you may trust your g/f, we are talking guys here. You are a guy and you know how men think what they want.

I’m 21 and 90% of my friends are women. I like to talk, I’m more open then most guys so in a nutshell I think that is why I get along better w/ women then men as my friends. My g/f just left for college again and is a few hours away. She gets concerned sometimes (jealous) when I hang out w/ my friends. What I do to reassure her is I tell her what we do, where we go, etc without her even asking... she knows what is going on in my life. I also try and help her get to know them…. After all…. They are my friends…. So maybe try and see if you can chat online or what not--- tell your g/f you want to get to know some of her friends… that way you will have less of “what-if’s” going threw your head.

The thing with the 50 yr. old guys is freaky. A smart girl would be more careful then she has been. Personally I don’t trust guys (even being one myself).

Tell her how you feel. You sound insecure about this--- you cannot trust her cus you cannot trust other guys. It’s logical and if she understands you about this when you tell her… great… if not… move on if it bothers you. That is all I can say.

Remember jealousy is the fear of losing someone we care about. It is healthy and keeps you on your toes, but don’t let it consume you either… in this situation… you really need to keep on your toes no matter how much you trust her. After all, you are some ways away from her.