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Old 30-08-03, 03:34 AM
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Re: I dumped him because he used me, but I still like him......
I am sorry. A very similar thing happened to one of my best friend’s recently. She was seeing the guy on and off for over a year. And a month ago he told her all this time he was just using her. I felt so sorry for her. She is such a good person, but has bad luck with men. She keeps telling me why can’t the guys she likes be a good guy like me, I just tell her over and over that most men don’t equate feelings as much into the mix as women do.

Just don’t let it get you down. He did something more to you than physically uses you. He emotionally manipulated you. This is what happened to my best friend too. Guys sometimes will play with a girl’s feelings to jut get what they want. I always tell ppl to take things slow and don’t act on urges since 7 out of 10 times you are likely to be hurt.

Just reflect on things, and see what you learned and don’t make the same mistakes again. That is all you can do. Good luck.