I know exactly what you are feeling LTsK8eR2gO, I am currently feeling the exact same way right now. My girlfriend has pushed me away 1 too many times. I feel like a spring that has lost its spring because its been bent out of shape too many times, and my girlfriend has lost the fire she had when we were together. She no longer looks at me the same, she has to TRY to be happy when she's around me. I really care about this girl and I don't know what to do. I want to sit down and give her an ultimatum "I love you, but if you can't start finding time for our relationship, it can't go on" sorta thing... but this might just make matters worse. I'm really considering going to a relationship therapist would anybody consider that wierd to go to relationship therapist over a girlfriend? I really feel like this girl loves me but I think she has stopped putting her all into the relationship... I need to find a way of letting her know that this can't go on like this forever. I need to find a way to sit down and open the communication up. Any suggestions?