Also, any guy that is making you change things about yourself, down to the way you dress raises concerns. I hope you know this is not that normal. I don't know how you feel about this, but I would not be too happy. He maybe trying to be over protective and controling. He may also be hurting you emotionally without you knowing it...when someone asks you to change yourself, you may question why. The why is not in you--it is him.