Thank you for your replies. I do understand that if I make a big deal out of it and that it could blow up in my face. I have and been very careful about this whole issue. I haven’t said anything about this in the past, until recently. I do not want to tell him . . listen up, you either change or I am outta here. But then also I do not and cannot continue a relationship like this. We have argued about this topic many times. I do not want to force this on him, I want him to want to fix, correct it by his own will. But also a lot has to do with how she treats him. I feel out of place to tell him how she should treat her son. I think that would create a major war. What suggestions do you have that would help? What tips do you have that would help him have a more mature, adult relationship with her?
Thank you again.