i totally fell in love with this girl on the phone introduced through a friend, but when i met her in person she was different, she lied about her weight. its not that bad just shes a little thick around the waist, i dig her a lot dont get me wrong because of her personality and everything but if she lost like 10 lbs she would be the girl that was like perfect. how do i get her to exercise without like actually saying 'hey can you exercise?'