Originally Posted by Illusional
haha you're probably referring to me. i get under most people's skin in the introduction section. secondly, you won't get banned because you get mad. i love to see people get mad. it makes me laugh. third, i believe that steve is actually a female.
well well well..to your little problem that you are having. it's not so much that girls want to be YOUR number 1 priority. it's more so that they would like half of the attention that you give to the gym. first off, i think that you seem overly conceited probably because you're lift and you can bench 4000 pounds. me, i'm only lifting in the 2000 pound cateory so i'm not quite at your level. however you need to get your mind off the idea that girls are only after you because you're on the team. there are about 20 other guys that they could **** because they are also on the team.
your perception of girls are totally wrong. if you ignore their needs, then of course problems will arise. when you don't get enough rest then your muscles are overworked, in the same sense that if your gf doesn't get what she needs, thing start to happen. i think that you're starting relationships with the wrong type of girls. you want someone to be on YOUR schedual but the truth is that they have a life outside of the gym and when you put more time and energy into yourself rather than your significant other, it seems like crying to you, but they are thinking, why am i still with this guy.
raverboy
Finally someone answered my post instead of pissin me off with negative bullshit advice,
cause this is a real problem with me
Now the whole team and girl thing, thats no shit man, its not just me, (by the way this is a bigten college, there 105 guys on the team, not 20) every guy gets it, theres college sluts that want football dick, I'm not being conceited when I say that, its the ****ing truth bro. You would not understand unless you played. Some people around here are infatuaited(Spelling??Sorry to you ****ers that don't like that, didn't have a dictionary in front of me) with players, not football, but basketball to. Its not something that I make up, nor is it something I am bragging about, its simply the truth.
Some girls just wanna have sex with an athlete so they can say the next week, look thats him on tv.
Anyway, since thats cleared up. My problem is the girls complaining about me not being about to be out late all the time, and not drinking, I know they have a life, it consistes og class, and work. I try to make time for my girl when I can, but I mean, my scholarship depends on me staying strong, and continually getting better. Mabye I put to much infesist on that, but I don't wanna **** that up, cause my mom is so proud of me.
Do I need to find a girl that appreciates what I do more? I know it sounds liek I make my girl adjust to my schedule and only my schedule, but thats simply not the truth, I take her out to nice restraunts, take her to movies, went to prom with her, met the parents, eat dinner with her at her house and family, so they can get to know me.
But for my past 3 girls that has not been enough, and as soon as I turn down like 3 offers to go out, or do something, when I'm just plain shittfaced tired. She starts judging me and saying I NEVER do anything with her, and she needs someone to devot more attention to her, I mean, I burn myself out for these girls and they still end up thinking I don't give them enough time and I honestly think its b/c they know they aren't my Number 1 priority, but cmon, how can they be....
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