I totally agree with Illusional. Looks play a major part for me in girls, personality second and body last. No matter how good in character she is, her face has to make the cut. Yeah i'm shallow but i can't change what i like. In your case newlifebible04, if a person is fat for a long time, they get used to it and getting them to go on a diet is a really tough regime. Food plays a major part in getting rid of those 'excess' so eat healthy. cutting down on eating after 9 helps alot. Go out. Beach, roller skating, whatever. Have fun while losing it without it being so obvious you're saying she's fat.

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