Ok, I hadn't joined in until now cos I didn't want to get into a slinging match but, ah well.

Raverboy has a point, yes he was blunt but he always is and he often talks commonsense (that was all that LT was trying to point out).

Your posts have generally been pointed at yourself and asking why a girl is doing something. The replies you have found most helpful, such as Fawns above, have presented the girls point of view, or what the girl may be thinking. All Raverboy was saying was that maybe in order to have better relationships with girls, which I think is what you are looking for, you need to step back when things don't seem to be going how you want them to and take their point of view into account. WHich in my opinion is a good piece of advice, if you take it then things will undoubtedly get better for you.

Take another example, your blowjob thread, if I was a girl and I sucked that much then I'd want the guy to guide me towards what turned him on, cos I sure as hell am not giving my guy a blow job for the good of my health!

Anyway, that's me done. Please don't rant at me, I'm just trying to help!

Claire