Talking from experience as we speak. I never thought I'd find myself attracted to the body builder type, but here I am. Women are so different and are attracted to a certain male type for whatever reason. But after months of dating one myself, I am not necessarily attracted to the body builder type, but the person himself. And its much deeper than the outside appearance. It's related of course, his motivation, dedication, and committment that inspires and intrigues me. Its not like Ive had this thing for body builders and would date only body builders, and for some women that might be the case. Its like some women are only attracted to Dr.'s. or some are attracted to the business tycoon type. To each their own.

Not spending any time in the circle of body builders but dating one who talks about, Im learning a great deal about this lifestyle. There are alot of misconceptions about it. All steroids, no brains, etc. This is not true. There are alot of body builders who stick to themselves and have motivations and high goals, higher than most. I give them a lot of credit, its masochism to me, not to eat what I want, but hell, I still give them a great deal of respect.

So, bigten, reading through several of your posts, I think you should know women vary in what theyre are attracted to in a man, not just appearance. Its unfair to those who are dedicated and have these stereotypes attached to them that a woman doesnt look past that and see who the real person is.

I do give you alot of respect as well, knowing you yourself have high goals for your life and are attempting to achieve them. Dont let anyone stand in your way. And one day, a woman will come along and understand and respect you for who you are.

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