Im going to say it when
I am ready to say it. Not because a book says I should or shouldnt or because its not right the man should say it first. I dont have a lot of experience in the dating world let alone the loving department, but this last year Ive learned a great deal about myself and am still learning. But I know this much, those three words are not little, they're the most profound impact you can possibly have on someone. I feel if Im ready for it, Im taking the chance to say so, no matter how I think he would react. Ive said to so many people on here...take a chance-Columbus did. Life is too short to worry about the what if's!
My advice is dont say it unless you KNOW it and truly feel it. Knowing you the know difference between being infatuated and being in love. I personally wouldnt take it wrong or defensive if I didnt hear it back, they may be in a different place at that time, and if youre understanding enough, you accept it. But dont let society dictate when you are ready for it. Go with your heart and your soul and you will know when its appropiate!
