Unfortunately, there are general rules to the game that apply to the vast majority of the people playing it.

My point is, and this is based on experience and what I see, when you tip the balance in any direction..it unbalances the equation and all things can go to chaos.

Think of someone you meet somewhere...party, bar, library..anything. You hit it off pretty well and you definitely can see some potential in this. But if the guy/girl starts to overwhelm you..calling you multiple times a day and starts talking about how great you are and having babies together and whatnot...you will probably be a little turned off by having someone so easily wrapped around your finger.

I'm not saying "fight the feeling of being completely smitten by someone", no, by all means, love all you want..but in a relationship, you have to bee careful early on to keep the equation balanced if you want a future for the relationship...it has to grow together..you can't have a really interested party while the other one is only mildly interested and expect the latter to catch up later.

That's just what I've come to think lately...nubmers, always numbers...don't unbalance the equation within a degree of tolerance..heh, heh.

Freddie

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