okay so i went off to college (i'm 18, btw) looking for a fresh start with the ladies. i didn't have too much luck in high school mainly because i was way too shy. since then i have changed that and i'm really not shy anymore unless i'm hanging out with a group of 5 or more because i'll sit around and let them do the talking. most of the people at my school also have boyfriends and i'm not the kinda guy that will hit on girls that do, because i just don't think it's right.

so eventually within the first 2-3 weeks i met this girl that i really like and i have never felt this strongly about another girl. things started getting pretty serious between us and i asked her if she was interested in a relationship and she said that she just really doesn't want a boyfriend right now. a couple weeks later i start discussing it more in detail why she doesn't want a boyfriend and it's because she just broke up with her bf before coming to college because he moved away and she stayed here. that's the only reason they broke up. she also said that she planned on getting back together with him but now she isn't completly sure since she met me. so i could see giving it time to heal the process of breaking up with your bf but she says she still has feelings for him and he is coming back to visit soon, for a whole month and will be moving back soon too. lately in the past 2 weeks it seems we haven't been as close either and she acts completly different with me when we are with a group of friends and when we are alone.

so i think it's a bad situation and normally i would move on but like i said i've never felt this way about another girl and there isn't anybody else i am interested in. what do you guys think i should do? i hope it wasn't all too long to read and any feedback is appreciated.