We have tried talking about it, for the last year atleast. Nothing ever gets resolved. She wants to pre-screen movies as she thinks that I get aroused by the images that I see, when that's not the case. (I've told her this).

The main thing that she has a problem with now, and i'm not sure if it's just me, But I told her that when everything is going well with us, that sometimes (a very small percentage of time) I think about other women (when one wanders infront of my eye... I don't activly seek out to look at women to get turned on). Probably once every month or so. My opinion is that this is biologically normal. To think sexually about others sometimes. I have told her that I AM NOT contimplating going out and sleeping with someone. There's a difference between thinking and doing. But she see's this at cheating on her, emotionally.... and the porn thing that happened so long ago... was cheating on her also.

I have tried many times to keep up her spirits and tell her how great she is and what I like about her... but it seems like we're always taking two steps forward, and 3 steps backwards