true..as joe said, he is only using you for sex. it shouldn't be hard to see because the only time that he wants to be with you and when he gets some. other than his own satisfaction, he isn't willing to give you the time of day. yes he might not be fooling around with his ex, but does he need a reason to? you're giving him what he wants and without him having to try very hard. i think that you know what the problem is and how to solve it. find a bf that wont' use you. raverboy

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