the famous quote..."i'm married, not dead"

it is totally normal to think about people of the opposite sex when in a serious relationship. it's not like crushes are gonna go away once you're in a relationship. that doesn't mean that you're going to act on them it just means you're human! i always talk to my boyfriend about how i think johnny depp or tom cruise is hot, he doesn't care, he tells me all about cate blanchett all the time! it doesn't matter. we trust each other and we don't deny each other our desires. your girlfriend has problems and like someone before me said, she's punishing you for them. her expectations are unrealistic.