I think you´re not understanding (yet). What is a few years waiting for a lifetime together? The right answer is nothing.. if you insist to be such an impatient person, then you´ll miss a lot in yer life.
I always laugh at people anyway who say how difficult it is when you don´t see your mate for a month. A month apart is nothing, at some point of life you have to get used to that anyway. Btw, we didn´t meet on the internet, it wasn´t even supposed to happen. It just did, we fell in love. We´ve seen three times, spent about 40 days together, and I´ve seen enough to say that she the most trustable, she even apologized this lie by crying. She never has money, but took a loan of 250e just to come here to see me.
I would not do that if I wasn´t serious.