I hear what your saying but I'm not sure they all assume that's all your interested in..I think a lot of it comes does from them and perhaps as guys we give off certain signals that when they come back to us from them we misread and then think somethings there that isn't...

And equally I feel that I've put myself in positions I shouldn't have with regards to girls I wasn't interested in but wanted to help...and that's always a bad idea.

Thing is from my situation (and I've got a lot of other stuff going on in my head at the mo as well) it has clarifeid the type of person I want to spend time with...it just happens that this time it probably never go beyond friendship