shit shit.. i was over at some friends house and.. ok **** the story.. the point is, my friends AND maybe my girlfriend if i can convince her (she needs some advice.. lol) are gonna be in here, and i wouldn't want my g/f reading all the shit i type about her.

my suggestion is, why don't we put a textbox of all the users that can NOT read the thread? and, in order for this to be approved, guests aren't allowed to read it either, due to privacy concerns.