i like when the man, sucks my clit... not too hard... but not too soft... then he woks his way over to the lips... and licks and sucks those... i like to be fingered at the same time all this is goin on... but this is usually a difficult task for most men..... ( i dont know y though) while you are fingering a girl.... i think you should do it in and upward motion.... so you hit the G-Spot..... if you do this, she'll love it......