Originally Posted by sunny72
I don't have an affair with a married guy (and I'm not planning to have one). It is probably one of the worst things that can happen. However, I don't think anybody is "planning" to have an affair. This is about feelings and sometimes things just happen. Furthermore, it always takes two. So never say never. It is hard for kids when their parents break up. However, first of all an affair must not mean the end of a marriage. Secondly, if something is wrong in that relationship (why do you have an affair?) then it does not help the kids if their parents stay together because of them.
that's the most selfish thing i've ever heard. If the man or woman is having an affair, The marriage should be broken up...bringing some other woman's sick smell, or a man's sweat into your own spouse's bed is sick. If you want to go **** some other person, do it when you're single. If you feel the need to be single, get a divorce. It's a lot easier to hear that your parents are getting a divorce than it is to hear that your dad just couldn't settle for just his family, he had to bang some other slut behind his family's back
and if you're SO worried about things happening between the two of you..i suggest you stay away from him. this problem isn't that hard to avoid. unless you dont mind ****ing up his family or yours.